Parish vs. Parochialism

Parochialism is wary of "others";
a parish welcomes them.

Parochialism separates us from "them";
a parish unites us with them.

Parochialism closes us in;
a parish opens us out.

Parochialism forms a club;
a parish fosters community.

Parochialism sows suspicions;
a parish promotes respect.

Parochialism segregates and excludes;
a parish incorporates and includes.

Parochialism constricts and confines;
a parish expands and overflows.

Parochialism would have us dig in;
a parish bids us to reach out.

Parochialism is self-centered and self-serving;
a parish is self-effacing in its service.

Parochialism preaches: "Only for us!"
a parish should be magnanimous.

When, therefore, worshipers are concerned
only about their own interests,
they are guilty of parochialism.
If, however, our interest is
in the concerns of others,
we form a true parish.

Walter J. Niebrzydowski